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Do you crawl into bed with the covers over your head hoping the world will go away and stop knocking on your door?

Or do you come home from work every night and sit in front of the Television and get lost in another world?

You need to put limits on yourself and get back into thinking of what you want in your life? What when you were a little child did you dream of?

When you think you have it really bad and nobody understands what you are going through, please remember you are not alone in the world you have people that care, they might not show it the way you want. But have you told them what you want? You will only get what you ask for. The physic hotline is down, others cannot read your mind.  Tell people just like your Christmas wish list to Santa!!

Here is an inspiring video to remind you to get back up!

Nick Vujicic, born with no limbs, faces obstacles every day of his life. It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish.

Remember some people come into the world and have more difficulties than you and they find a way to overcome their obstacles. Happiness comes from within.

Your income, health, weight, and financial goals will be the average of your 10 closest friends/associates.

Look around are you below or above what you want?

1. The books you read

2.The people you associate with.

3.The decisions that you make today.

How much do you want to earn?

Where do you want to travel?

Who do you want to meet?

What house do you want to live in? Where is it?

If you do not have a plan of where you want to go, anywhere you end up will be the result of other people’s plans.

Are you driving the bus of your life or are you a passenger?

In this interview, the founder of Positive Psychology, Martin Seligman, PhD, introduces Positive Psychotherapy. Seligman emphasizes that happiness is not just the absence of disorder.

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE. Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.  

FOUR. When you say, ‘I love you,’ mean it .

FIVE. When you say, ‘I’m sorry,’ look the person in the eye.

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone’s dream. People who don’t have dreams don’t have much.

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.

TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN. Don’t judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask, ‘Why do you want to know?’

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN. Say ‘God bless you’ when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R’s: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions. 

EIGHTEEN. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. 

TWENTY-ONE Spend some time alone.

Join me on a Conference call, that will give you the information, to make manageable goals for the year.  Will 2010 be the year you to get your goals done.

Smart Goals

Specific

Measurable

Attainable

Realistic

Timely

If you say I want to loose weight that’s nice but what does it look like?
How much? What will you do? With Who will you do it? By when or how much per week.  Can someone look over your shoulder and see your progress?

Do you have an accountability partner? This can be the same person you partner with to go and exercise or it can be a coach.  But you need someone to ask you where you are at, and what have you done to get closer to your goal.

Think of your Visions big or small and join me on

Tuesday December 15, 2009

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Do you want to do something new, but do not know what?

Well guess what?

No one is going to ride in on a horse and save you.

Are you doubting what you can do?  Do you often hear your inner voice telling you that you cannot do something. Great write the reasons down.

Take the list and take it to the ridiculous.

You have to use the Dreamer against the realist, and doubter.

Example:

I did not want to tell people that I wanted to make a web site to help people.
Because then I would really have to do it.   My need to help people won out.

The doubter would say:  You cannot write content for a website, you were a C student.
The Dreamer said you do not have to write essay’s and no teacher is going to grade you on your writing.

The Doubter would say: How are you going to help people, it took you 3 years to come out of the fog and find happiness again.
The Dreamer said: Yes, but you want to help people, if you can help ease the pain of only one person then it would be worth it.

The Doubter said: what if you fail? (This is where You get to be ridiculous.)

The Dreamer said:  Yes can you just imagine People will recognize that you’ve made mistakes in your life and will laugh at you. Then they will think that they are so much more advanced that they did not make those errors.  You will not be able to show your self in public again. You will be walking down the street and they will see you and think oh that’s the person with the web site that made me laugh. Hmmm they will not know what I look like so they would not be able to recognize me.  And if they can laugh at my mistakes and not make those  errors themselves than that would be great, my goal will be accomplished.

So you see, you just have to push through the doubter and get your dream started and the momentum will carry you through.  Set a one month baby step goal and keep it on the top of your to do list, make bit size attempts at the big goals and before you know it you will be close to the finish line.

I have Loral Langemeier’s Millionaire Maker Game

Have you Played Monopoly or Cash Flow 101?

Then you will love the Millionaire Maker Game

When:  January 7th, 2010

Where: Burnaby, BC

Let start the new year off right with learning how to handle our finances properly.

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Everyday this week, show up in your life (home, office, meetings, Family, Friends)

In a positive emotional state: Happy, Optimistic, determined, passionate and confident.

Then at the end of the week report back using the comments section.